ADHDLeadership

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Field notes on mental health, mindset, leadership, ADHD, and emotional intelligence - (hopefully) sharp, compassionate, and a little feral. Expect practical tools, dry humor, and zero fluff to help you live, work, and love better.

 

When the Drive Disappears

ADHD, Motivation, and the Strange Stillness of Getting Stuck

Goal-directed persistence is the ability to stay focused on a goal over time, even when it’s boring, hard, or emotionally uncomfortable.

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Reclaiming Yourself After a Life of Survival

Some of us didn’t have childhoods.  

Not really.  

We had small windows of stillness in between chaos, long stretches of silence filled with the weight of adult responsibilities, and the invisible a...

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Well, that happened. Now what?

Life has an uncanny way of throwing curveballs that derail our best-laid plans, often leaving us scrambling for control over the uncontrollable. The job opportunity that falls through, the relationshi...

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Becoming Minerva: Reclaiming the Goddess Within

Some discoveries feel like they were meant to happen, even if they come by accident.  

Mine began with a simple mistake - a recurring misspelling of my name as “Minerva.”  

Autocorrect has renamed m...

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A Field Guide to Living on the Ragged Edge: Stress, Burnout, and Brownout 

Modern life has a way of feeling like a relentless game show, except you’re not sure what you’re playing for, the rules keep changing, and the host is just a little too smug.  

Between juggling work ...

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Communal Coping In Leadership

Coping, in psychological terms, refers to the strategies individuals use to manage stress or adversity. Early research on coping - pioneered by psychologists like Susan Folkman and Richard S. Lazarus ...

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The Games People Play

My teenager has a habit of warning her friends before they meet me. “She’s a coach and a trauma therapist,” she’ll say, “Don’t even try to pretend. She’ll be able to smell the trauma and insecurity on...

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Scale You While Scaling Your Business

Scaling a business is not for the faint of heart.  

It's exhilarating, sure, but also slightly terrifying when you realize it's not just your operations, revenue, or customer base that needs to grow ...

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Unapologetically Stepping Into Your Villain Era

Executives, leaders, and professionals are often expected to be the go-to person - someone who solves problems, keeps things running smoothly, and goes above and beyond for others.  

Somewhere along ...

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The Quest for External Validation

You know that feeling when you're at a party or a networking event and you catch yourself checking the room? You are trying to read the expressions on everyone’s face; trying to gauge their vibe towar...

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The Key to Real Growth: Getting Comfortable with Discomfort 

Voice on the phone (VOP): “Mineela, I’m calling from the TEDx committee.” 

Me: “Oh...?” 

VOP: “You were nominated by one of the employees to be a speaker at the upcoming TEDx event.” 

Wait. What? T...

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