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Field notes on mental health, mindset, leadership, ADHD, and emotional intelligence - (hopefully) sharp, compassionate, and a little feral. Expect practical tools, dry humor, and zero fluff to help you live, work, and love better.

 

Reward Drift: When the Brain Seeks the Right Reward in the Wrong Place

 

There’s a failure mode productivity advice never explains well. It isn’t the person who does nothing. It’s the person who does everything except the thing that needed doing. By the end of the day t...

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When the Drive Disappears

ADHD, Motivation, and the Strange Stillness of Getting Stuck

Goal-directed persistence is the ability to stay focused on a goal over time, even when it’s boring, hard, or emotionally uncomfortable.

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The ADHD Edge

 Most conversations about ADHD in the workplace still operate on the same tired spectrum: either it’s framed as a liability to be managed or a legal checkbox to be ticked.  

For years, corporate stra...

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A Field Guide to Living on the Ragged Edge: Stress, Burnout, and Brownout 

Modern life has a way of feeling like a relentless game show, except you’re not sure what you’re playing for, the rules keep changing, and the host is just a little too smug.  

Between juggling work ...

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Communal Coping In Leadership

Coping, in psychological terms, refers to the strategies individuals use to manage stress or adversity. Early research on coping - pioneered by psychologists like Susan Folkman and Richard S. Lazarus ...

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The Hidden Realities of Late ADHD Diagnosis in Women

Imagine a woman falling through the cracks and becoming invisible as she struggled for many years to keep her head above the waterline of a busy life. 

That woman was me.

In my thirties or forties, ...

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The Games People Play

My teenager has a habit of warning her friends before they meet me. “She’s a coach and a trauma therapist,” she’ll say, “Don’t even try to pretend. She’ll be able to smell the trauma and insecurity on...

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Scale You While Scaling Your Business

Scaling a business is not for the faint of heart.  

It's exhilarating, sure, but also slightly terrifying when you realize it's not just your operations, revenue, or customer base that needs to grow ...

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Unapologetically Stepping Into Your Villain Era

Executives, leaders, and professionals are often expected to be the go-to person - someone who solves problems, keeps things running smoothly, and goes above and beyond for others.  

Somewhere along ...

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Navigating Double Binds: The Tricky Balancing Act of Modern Leadership

Have you ever felt stuck in one of those impossible situations where you’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t?

Welcome to the world of double binds - a catch-22 situation that feels like being...

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The Key to Real Growth: Getting Comfortable with Discomfort 

Voice on the phone (VOP): “Mineela, I’m calling from the TEDx committee.” 

Me: “Oh...?” 

VOP: “You were nominated by one of the employees to be a speaker at the upcoming TEDx event.” 

Wait. What? T...

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Lead Like You Mean It: Cultivating Power, Presence, and Confidence in Leadership

First thing’s first: personal power is not about dominance or control.  

It’s not about wearing the sharpest suit in the room or knowing every answer.  

It’s about walking into any room and owning w...

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